I thought I made it pretty clear on my profile that I'm not seeking online relationships ie submissives but no sooner had I stepped into Velvet Thorn I get a message from one of my "male" friends to start a conversation with me. Now mind you, Janus has been on SL for over two years but apparently hasn't had the time to fill out his profile and still trolling for a Mistress - check it:
[18:47] Janus Emerald: Hello Miss
[18:47] Jane Garnburg: Hay there
[18:47] Janus Emerald: How are you?
[18:48] Jane Garnburg: awesome and you?
[18:48] Janus Emerald: Oh so so I suppose
[18:49] Janus Emerald: Looking to submit really
[18:49] Jane Garnburg: well, better than nothing I suppose
[18:49] Jane Garnburg: really?
[18:49] Janus Emerald: Yes perhaps to get sissified as well
[18:50] Jane Garnburg: have you asked anhy of the ladies here?
[18:50] Janus Emerald: Not yet
[18:52] Janus Emerald: Are you not interested?
[18:52] Jane Garnburg: you might get some hits if you update your profile too
[18:52] Jane Garnburg: its completely empty
[18:52] Jane Garnburg: honestly I'm not looking for anyone online
[18:53] Janus Emerald: Ahhh
[18:53] Jane Garnburg: I get in trouble enough that people think I'm some sort of predator because I do mention in my profile that I am a pro-domme
[18:54] Janus Emerald: Ahh well I didn't take you for a predator
[18:54] Jane Garnburg: your probably the only one
[18:55] Janus Emerald: Ahhh well I was only looking to try something that might be fun for myself and another *shrugs*
[18:55] Jane Garnburg: ooo.. check out the HUGE sign that talks about Findommes
[18:55] Jane Garnburg: keep searching!!
[18:56] Jane Garnburg: but I suggest that you update your profile to state that you are looking for a dominant
[18:56] Jane Garnburg: Unfortunately I do charge for my services whether online or in person
[18:56] Jane Garnburg: but I am an excellant friend
[18:56] Janus Emerald: Ahhh makes sense =)
[18:56] Janus Emerald: Its okay I understand
[18:57] Jane Garnburg: why thank you :)
Not a word after that. Not even a "hay I found a really cool place here that I'd like to share with you" not even a simple conversation about the weather - just rude AND FRUSTRATING considering that this is the same exact conversation and interaction I was hoping to prevent when I originally changed my profile to set the expectation that if submissives take this route of interaction with me then they can expect to pay for my company. It's too bad that more dominant woman don't keep the submissives in line this way rather hate on ME because I expect a proper conversation.
On happier news, I'm talking with my aunt about renting a place at Rainbow Angel Island,a completely gay sim - I'M LOVING THE IDEA ALREADY!!
More updates to come!